What should i do before marriage should i date someone for sometime and then marry or should just go for arrange marriage and hope for best?

…choose each other. I believe marriage carries its own blessings, and when two people build a life together with love, understanding, and mutual support, it can open doors to growth, happiness, and success. Sometimes, the right person entering our life at the right time is itself a blessing from God. 🤍

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  Anonymous Ibex

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  Oct 20

  Sure thanks for the suggestion

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  Anonymous BearOct 19

  You may not know everything about a person in a few conversations, but you can understand a lot: their confidence, life goals, mindset, maturity, spirituality, respect for elders, and how they approach responsibilities. Just like interviews help us assess a person’s suitability for a job, meaningful conversations can help us assess compatibility in marriage. It may not reveal everything, but it gives us a good starting point. So why not talk, observe, and pray for guidance before deciding?

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  Anonymous BearOct 19

  I feel like you’re afraid of how the right partner will come into your life. We may make different plans, but ultimately, what God has destined for us will happen, and I believe there is wisdom in His plan. Good people are meant for good people, and I believe destiny has its own way of bringing people together. ❤️

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  Anonymous BearOct 19

  That’s possible in both arranged and love marriages. But if you “test” someone through love, and they don’t meet your standards, will you leave them and start loving someone else again? Compatibility isn’t guaranteed by either path—what matters is choosing carefully, communicating honestly before marriage, and being committed afterward.

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  Anonymous Ibex

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  Oct 18

  I agree i have seen my parents who had same but we dont know the person before marrying everyone looks good same people maybe lucky to get aa perfect pair but it doesnt workout everytime right after marrying if we got to know that person is not compatible then how to live with that person all the life

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…..knowing them. Before marriage, both people should talk openly about their opinions, values, expectations, career, family, responsibilities, and how they imagine life after marriage. If their thoughts and expectations align and they understand and respect each other, they can take the next step with confidence. For me, arranged marriage is not just about parents choosing someone; it is about parents helping us find a good partner, while we also take the time to understand and choose each othe

I personally believe arranged marriage is beautiful because it gives us a chance to find the person we are destined to be with. Sometimes, we may make the wrong choices based on our emotions or limited understanding, but parents usually want the best for us. They look for a good, understanding, responsible, and capable partner who can stand by us and take care of us throughout life. I believe arranged marriage has a divine decree in it. ❤️ But that doesn’t mean we should marry someone without k

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